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Relationship Anarchy and Solo Polyamory
Exploring and explaining the differences between relationship anarchy and solo polyamory.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Jun 26, 20243 min read

Behaviors People Engage In When They Are Jealous
Continuing in our series on jealousy we break down more of the behaviors people engage in while jealous, often to avoid feeling other thing
Karyn Wittmeyer
Oct 16, 20236 min read

Jealousy As A Route To Identifying Your Needs
This post delves into what that jealousy may be masking. What are the feelings under it, and how do those help you identify needs that
Karyn Wittmeyer
Oct 9, 20238 min read


How Can I Fix Emotional Intimacy In My Nonmonogamous Relationships?
Continuing the series on emotional intimacy. How to address concerns when your relationship doesn't feel emotionally intimate.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Sep 25, 20237 min read

Questions To Build Emotional Intimacy in Nonmonogamous Relationships
Questions for building emotional intimacy.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Sep 18, 20236 min read


How Can I Tell If I'm Emotionally Intimate?
This post is part of our ongoing series on emotional intimacy, what it is, how to cultivate it, and what to do if you're struggling with it.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Sep 11, 20235 min read

Understanding Emotional Intimacy: Your Guide to More Fulfilling Relationships
Learning about the different types of intimacy, what emotional intimacy is, and ways to up yours in your relationships.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Sep 4, 20238 min read


Mutuality vs. Autonomy in Nonmonogamous Relationships
Learn what mutuality and autonomy are, the spectrum, and how to find the "sweet spot" where you feel safe, secure, and balanced in yourself.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Aug 14, 20236 min read

Resource Roundup
Here are a few of our favorite resources to get you going in building your own resource list to reference.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Jul 24, 20237 min read

Polyamory - Common Misconceptions and the Real Truth
There are many myths surrounding polyamory. In this post we try to separate fact from fiction to help dispel stigma, and increase understan
Karyn Wittmeyer
Jun 12, 20236 min read

Defining Different Terms in Nonmonogamy
So what are all these terms? What do they mean? I'm so confused!!
Karyn Wittmeyer
May 29, 202310 min read

Why We Don't Put Ethical or Consensual In Front of Nonmonogamy!
So why don't we use "ethical" or "consensual" on our website? We break that down with examples.
Karyn Wittmeyer
May 15, 20235 min read

How to Make Sure Your Relationship is "Ethical" and "Consensual"
What do "ethical" and "consensual" actually mean? How do those apply to your behaviors and decisions?
Karyn Wittmeyer
May 1, 20237 min read

What Is New Relationship Energy?
What is New Relationship Energy (NRE)? Why do people talk about it so much? What's there to fear about it?
Karyn Wittmeyer
Apr 24, 20235 min read

What exactly is nonmonogamy? Unpacking the Definition of Nonmonogamy
So what is nonmonogamy? Here we discuss what it is, common terms you might see, and ways of being in relationship.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Apr 17, 20235 min read

5 Things Non-monogamous Relationships Won't Fix
Five problems that people often try to fix through nonmonogamy.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Apr 10, 20234 min read
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