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Relationship Anarchy and Solo Polyamory
Exploring and explaining the differences between relationship anarchy and solo polyamory.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Jun 26, 20243 min read


Rules, Agreements, Boundaries, and Limits (redux)
Taking a look back at our post on boundaries, agreements, rules, and limits to continue this ongoing conversation, and build more nuance.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Oct 23, 20238 min read

Behaviors People Engage In When They Are Jealous
Continuing in our series on jealousy we break down more of the behaviors people engage in while jealous, often to avoid feeling other thing
Karyn Wittmeyer
Oct 16, 20236 min read

Jealousy As A Route To Identifying Your Needs
This post delves into what that jealousy may be masking. What are the feelings under it, and how do those help you identify needs that
Karyn Wittmeyer
Oct 9, 20238 min read


Your Guide to Identifying and Understanding Jealousy
The first in a series on jealousy. Helping you understand what it is, what it isn't, and how to navigate it.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Oct 2, 20238 min read


How Can I Fix Emotional Intimacy In My Nonmonogamous Relationships?
Continuing the series on emotional intimacy. How to address concerns when your relationship doesn't feel emotionally intimate.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Sep 25, 20237 min read

Questions To Build Emotional Intimacy in Nonmonogamous Relationships
Questions for building emotional intimacy.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Sep 18, 20236 min read


How Can I Tell If I'm Emotionally Intimate?
This post is part of our ongoing series on emotional intimacy, what it is, how to cultivate it, and what to do if you're struggling with it.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Sep 11, 20235 min read

Understanding Emotional Intimacy: Your Guide to More Fulfilling Relationships
Learning about the different types of intimacy, what emotional intimacy is, and ways to up yours in your relationships.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Sep 4, 20238 min read

Being Asexual In Relationship With An Allosexual
Will opening up help? This is a question we see a lot in the therapy room, especially as more people are becoming familiar with the...
Karyn Wittmeyer
Aug 28, 20237 min read

Best Dating Apps (and places) for Nonmonogamous Relationships
Dating is hard!! It's even more complicated in todays world where so many things are virtual, and many don't understand nonmonogamy.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Aug 21, 20235 min read


Mutuality vs. Autonomy in Nonmonogamous Relationships
Learn what mutuality and autonomy are, the spectrum, and how to find the "sweet spot" where you feel safe, secure, and balanced in yourself.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Aug 14, 20236 min read

Recent Legal Breakthroughs In Nonmonogamous Relationships
Legal protections for nonmonogamous folks varies state by state, and there is a lot of ambiguity around what is possible.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Aug 7, 20236 min read

Resource Roundup
Here are a few of our favorite resources to get you going in building your own resource list to reference.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Jul 24, 20237 min read


When Agreements Go Bad
People make agreements in nonmonogamy for many reasons, often it is to help avoid conflict and hurt feelings. Many early agreements fail.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Jul 17, 20238 min read

Polyamory Form Focus: Polyfidelitous Structures and Unicorn Hunting
Unicorn hunting has a really bad reputation in nonmonogamous communities, especially polyamorous ones. There is stigma, and ethical concerns
Karyn Wittmeyer
Jul 10, 20235 min read

The 5 Most Common But Least Useful Agreements In Nonmonogamy
Listing five very common, but very difficult to follow or unhealthy, agreements in nonmonogamy.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Jul 3, 20237 min read

Rules, Agreements, and Boundaries, Oh My!
Rules, agreements, and boundaries are all confusing and often interchanged. Here we help you learn about them, and how to identify yours.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Jun 19, 20237 min read

Polyamory - Common Misconceptions and the Real Truth
There are many myths surrounding polyamory. In this post we try to separate fact from fiction to help dispel stigma, and increase understan
Karyn Wittmeyer
Jun 12, 20236 min read

NRE and Understanding What You Want Out of a Relationship.
Our final installment in the NRE series. Looking at what you want out of your relationship so you can choose how you act.
Karyn Wittmeyer
Jun 5, 20236 min read
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